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Wednesday, November 05, 2008

The essential components

Things Essential for an AS individual (at least for me)

-A strong support network (for me this consists of my family, friends, and student services and my professors at school).

-Downtime (time spent doing absolutely nothing except staring into space. This is necessary to discharge).

-Appopriate outlets for sensory issues (for me swinging and jumping on a trampoline work well).

-People who believe in my stengths while at the same time recognize my weaknesses.

-Mentors who encourage me to reach for my dreams. (Over the years special teachers and professors filled and continue to fill that role for me along with my Mom who is my # 1 mentor)

-Special interests to stimulate my mind (right now my research project satisfies this).

-Friends who understand my need for a lot of alone time.

-Taking the time in my schedule for entertainment activities such as playing video games (this reduces stress).

-Appropriate medical support (I have an excellent doctor who works with me to find the right combination of medication and other strategies).

-Animal companions. (My animals give me something to care for other than myself and look to me for love.)

-Belief in myself

1 comments:

Nicole said...

Hi

Your poem touched me a lot because I am a 29 year old undergraduate student with bipolar disorder who is trying to graduate. I have dreams too of doing post-graduate work but like you this taking me longer than I expected. I hope we can keep in touch. I am at nicoleghenry@hotmail.com> keep on gal!!




My Creed

I don’t have to be an expert

Just to be learning

And most importantly trying

To gradually raise the bar of my personal best

Like every human being

My future Is uncertain

My destination only partially in my hands

Each Moment I must stop and ask myself

Am I engaging fully in the present

While not forgetting the future

At the end of my time here

I want to look back and say

Not that I changed the world

Not on my number of accomplishments

But that I put my everything into each one

That I’ve helped more people than I’ve harmed

That I’ve given this world my best

And walked away having learned something

That’s all I can ask of myself



Laura, February 2008



Am I really going anywhere

Or is it an illusion

Like standing on a rock on the beach

Watching the water flow towards you

You feel you’re moving forward

But cover no distance at all

Or am I like the inchworm

Who climbs partway up a vine

To be pushed back by the wind

To begin its ascent from an earlier point

It will reach its destination

Much later than expected

But still make it

Through major progress

And major setbacks

My dreams remain




Laura, October 2, 2007
Evolution: God's work in progress